
The aim here is closeness and a deeper connection with your partner, not getting a laugh in the changing rooms. You can choose to follow the Urban Dictionary definition and helicopter afterwards as a final flourish… but we can’t promise the reaction will be positive. A pillow under the receiving partner’s hips also helps make the motion easier, with the added benefit of deeper penetration. To upgrade the windmill position even further, remember the receiver’s hands are free, so they can easily engage in foot-play or anal stimulation with their partner. Some additionally might find that not facing each other helps them avoid ‘ spectatoring’ in the bedroom, reducing any pressure to perform for their partner and allowing them to focus on their pleasure.

Because you can’t see each others’ faces, you’re forced to rely on touch and other senses, which can make for a passionate sexual encounter. If youve been naughty, watch out for Karma.

'I thought lacy underwear in my husband's car proved an affair, but it was something else'Īs well as the physical benefits you’ll feel from the closeness of your genitals, there are psychological reasons for trying out the windmill.
